Gratefully, our beautiful baby was born and though he is his own person he definitely has many traits and characteristics of his parents.
Then yesterday we had a play date with one of my neighbors and she said, "I just can't figure out who Benjamin looks like." And that quickly some of my anxieties returned.
Moral of the story: If you have family, friends, acquaintances who have children through IVF, please avoid such comments.
From his dad he inherited an insatiable love of ice cream.